[原创]对“建立圈子”感兴趣的朋友请看过来

mohuanmeil

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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">因经常参加一些网上发起的社群聚会，发现很多社群的聚会除了大家聚在一起喝点酒或者是打打球什么的，在其他方面对我们的价值并不大。很多时候是参加一个社群，经过</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">1-2</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">次聚会，发现参加这个社群的聚会价值并不大，换另外一个经过几次活动就又退出了。就这一问题与很多参加社群聚会的朋友聊过后，发现大家的意见几乎惊人的一致：“对我没什么用”。那我们到底希望参加什么样的聚会或活动呢？这就是我写这个提案的初衷，希望与对这一话题感兴趣的朋友共同探讨、交流。如果已有关于某一主题的较好的展开讨论的社群聚会，那么请你推荐给大家。</SPAN>


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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">发挥你的最佳想象力吧！首先利用网络赋予我们的权利，就你感兴趣的主题在网络上发起有着共同兴趣爱好的人在当地的聚会，使具有共同爱好的人在本地能联系起来。大家面对面，或许还品尝啤酒交流着彼此的心得。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN>


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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.0gd"><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">Why</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（为什么）？组织这一主题的聚会（或组织这项活动）最具诱惑的理由是什么？这一主题的聚会（这项活动）为什么非要举办？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN>


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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; mso-para-margin-left: 2.0gd"><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="Times New Roman">What</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（什么）？用简单易懂的一句话说明社群或主题聚会，这句话应该抓得住社群或主题聚会的特色，点出预期的目标。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN>


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